6 tips for building good financial habits for your teen

The teenage years are like a dress rehearsal for adulthood, where your teen is figuring out who they are, making a few awkward mistakes, and hopefully learning to cook something other than instant noodles. It's also the perfect time to start building strong financial habits! Here are our six tips to get you both on the road to developing strong financial habits that will stand to them in the future:  

1. Start the Conversation Early and Be Consistent

It's never too early to ‘have the chat’ about money. Even before they hit their teenage years, you can introduce simple concepts like saving and spending. Make money talk a regular part of your family conversations. Discuss the weekly grocery bill or explain why you save for holidays. The key is consistency; the more comfortably you discuss finances, the more comfortable they will be. Normalise the conversation around money and let them see it as a part of everyday life.

2. Make Sure They Have Their Own Account

If they don't have one already (in my day our communion money went straight into the bank!), encourage them to open their own bank account.  Children's accounts are designed specifically for young savers and spenders, giving them financial freedom while allowing you, and them, to monitor their progress.

3. Encourage Them to Work Part-Time

Getting their first job is a big milestone for teenagers. It helps them understand the value of hard work and introduces them to important concepts like wages and taxes. It also instils a sense of discipline, which is important when they transition to full-time employment. If they're not ready for a job yet, consider assigning them chores at home with an earning system in place. 

4. Teach Budgeting Together

Budgeting is a crucial life skill, and modelling this behaviour can be one of the most beneficial things you can do as a parent. Sit down with your teen and create a budget together. Show them how you manage your finances, explaining necessary expenses versus discretionary spending. There are many apps and tools available to help. Setting financial goals will help them understand the importance of planning for both short-term desires and long-term needs.

5. Encourage Savvy Saving and Smart Spending

Instilling the habit of saving money is essential. Consider setting up savings challenges with them—this could be a certain percentage of their allowance or income from a job. Encourage them to save for something they really want, latest iPhone anyone. This will teach them patience and the value of delayed gratification. Additionally, discuss the difference between needs and wants, you need a phone, you want the latest iPhone.  This helps them make informed decisions when it comes to spending their hard-earned money.

6. Lead by Example

Finally, remember you are your teen's first and most influential teacher—model good financial habits in your own life. Be transparent about your financial decisions and involve them in age-appropriate discussions about your budgeting and saving processes. When they see you practicing what you preach, it reinforces the lessons they are learning and encourages them to develop their own good habits.

Watch our short video: Teens tackling finance for more.

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Transcript  for video Teens tackling finance

Mum:  girls, how do you two make money?

Child: I'm working part time at a cafe, so I'm making my pocket money there.

Child: I'm an apprentice hairdresser so I get money from there.

Child:  I earn pocket money by doing chores at home. I do the washing.

Child: I had this amazing thing called the Bank of Mummy. And I get €15  a week into my Revolut account.

Child: By doing bake sales or car washes or babysitting jobs.

 

Mum: Does social media influence your spending habits?

Child: Definitely does. Sometimes, even if you don't want it to.

Child: like you'd see something online or on TikTok, and you'd think, oh, that's lovely. Like, I really want to buy that.

Mum: Are you disappointed then when it gets delivered?

Child: couple times.

Child:  I'd say, yeah, from ads.

Child: Yeah. Sometimes you kind of just want to wear, like, what's trendy and stuff.

 

Mum: Are you a saver or a spender?

Child: I save in a revolute.

Child:  I'm pretty good at saving. Lucy's the big spender.

Child: it’s not my fault I have expensive taste.

Mum: Your father's a lot to answer for.

Child: Sometimes I’m a spender.

Child: it depends like where I'm shopping. If I'm going to like Dundrum, I'm going to spend like €100, but then somehow I still have money left.

Child:  I'd be more of a saver and I was talking about my €15 a week, €10 of that goes away.

Mum: Do you know what insurance is for?

Child: protection against something that could happen. Let's say I have a house out in the countryside. Gorgeous, it would be. And a big storm comes and a few slides off my roof will fall off. I have insurance, they will give me the money to fix my roof

Child:  for when things happen so you don't have to spend lots of money.

Mum: Do you know what a pension is for?

Child: A pension is for when you retire.

Child: There's a state pension than your own pension. You're going to live off that money when you don't have a job.

Child: A pension is money you get after you retire.

Child: Doesn't it help you save for when you retire?

Child It does. So it's good thing to start saving. Getting into the habit of it.

Child: Now I feel targeted right now.

Mum: How are you going to buy your first car?

Child:  Hopefully, my parents.

Child:  I will. I'll work hard. Start saving.

Mum: Good girl.

 Child: Put aside shopping. Maybe it'll do that for me.

Child: I plan on maybe saving up some part time jobs in the summer until I get a full time job. Probably.

Mum: Would you like your own apartment?

Child: Yes, as soon as possible.

Mum: On your own or with people?

Child: with people, I think, yes,

Child: I would like to live in an apartment sort of experience college life.

Child: Maybe when I'm older and I don't have enough money for house, at least I'll have, like, somewhere to live.

Child: Yeah, I'd like to rent one close to home.

Mum: Would you let your twin brother live with you?

Child: No, no,

Child: I wouldn't want to go straight to a house. I want to go to an apartment first and then build my way up.

Child: Definitely. Yeah, but the price is still high around now. I'm not going to be able to rent for a long, long time. It's just extortion at the prices.

Mum: What's the most important lesson you've learned about money from your parents? Child: The harder you work, the more money you're going to make.

Child: Maybe you don't like spend like all your money at once. Save it. So then when you keep saving money, you can build up and get something like big and nice.

Child: money doesn't grow on trees.

Child: to save a little bit and to spend a little bit.

Child: Yes, you're allowed your brakes, but you have to work hard to get those breaks.

Child: Money doesn't buy happiness.